“You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your eternity in each moment.” Henry David Thoreau
My struggle has always been to stay in the present. Writing is my tool to keep me humble. My outward demeanor does not always match what my brain is thinking. I want to laugh all the time but I am so serious most of my days ~~ is it possible to find those waves that Thoreau is talking about?
I subscribe to Maria Shriver’s Sunday Paper ~~ she makes me laugh in her quest to be unique, she too is trying to figure out who she is and what she wants aside from expectations and she interviews interesting people with thought provoking problem solving ideas on her podcast “Meaningful Conversations” ~~ all the ingredients that keep me coming back each week. I like the way she approaches life and inspiration is a great way to move forward.
This week my husband and I made a major life decision:
When Downsizing is Not Downsizing
We have been looking at smaller homes in our area. We knew downsizing would be hard but would open up possibilities ~~ smaller yard, smaller inside, more free time. Turns out downsizing would have been more stressful to achieve than we hoped:
- We would be making a lateral move financially and the security we have built up over our last 36 years would dissolve.
- My husband’s creative vision for our yard would disappear with a sale and I reminded him, “when our family and friends step outside, they feel your love.”
- Every room has meaning and that was our plan.
- A larger home means more movement each day ~~ a good thing for our health.
- Our neighborhood is familiar and comforting.
- Watching a moving van pull away would take too much of the life we built together with it.
Home is a feeling ~~ not stuff. We must come up with a new idea for an adventure but we want to come home to the place we love.
And so, we are staying. We are relieved. We laugh more each day. We have to rely on our imaginations to come up with new ways to explore our need for change. We must stay healthy to keep up with our home maintenance schedule. Creative financial planning must become a date night topic.
We are still those two young marrieds with four kids who created a beloved home with meaning. We are not ready to let it go . . . . .